Equality In Heaven Made Matches
Having both partners on an equal footing creates the right conditions for the relationship to thrive Traditionally, men were expected to be in control in a relationship However, that is not the case in the modern day. Though the situation has changed, it has led to confusion during dating. Being a new phenomenal, equality might make new relationships difficult. The progress of a new relation could significantly be affected by the new changes. A look at the not so distant past could show how dating has changed today as compared to the past. Making decisions and paying off bills was to be done by men in the past. A majority of women are not looking for those qualities. It is irritating to a majority of women of a man is controlling.
Most of the men, however, often go back to the tried and tested methods of the past as they have not been able to adopt to the changes. The new changes have brought uncertainties. In trying to balance between what they have learnt and what is expected in the modern day, a majority of men find it difficult balancing. Since they are the ones who have gone through the changes, women should be proactive in setting the right tone. One of the questions that a lady should ask herself is what is the objective of being in the relationship. If what a woman is looking for is fun in a relationship, she should enjoy herself since it’s the decision she made. For a majority of women though, that is no longer the cases. A majority of women are concerned with making their date the best.
One of the new roles that have been conferred to women is planning. This is different from the past where men were the ones who decided what happened on the first date. Making of decisions concerning dates is no longer left to men alone. In order for a man not to feel controlled by a lady, she should avoid making suggestions about a date. It’s important to allow the man decide about it since most ladies are not used to picking date locations. This gives him chance to feel in control and the lady gets the chance to know his taste.In planning for the second dates, the ideas of the first date should help make it better. In making the second date more fun, a lady could pick clues of the first date and put them into use.
Another of the important issue about a date is; who pays. It is not obligations for men to pay bills. Its traditional thinking that women should not pay their bills on a date.